These days we’re all armchair psychologists, but could you be creating bigger problems in your relationship?The Sugar Doctor and Kia Handley talk about why you must stop pathologising your partner. [Full Transcript Below] Audio https://www.thesugardoctor.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/2020-08-31-pathologising-your-partner.mp3 You can listen to the show live on Monday mornings from 9:30 am on ABC Newcastle at 1233AM or stream…

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Kia Handley and The Sugar Doctor in conversation about “The Art of Fighting” You can listen to the show live on Monday mornings from 9:30 am on ABC Newcastle at 1233AM or stream live here. Kia Handley is: Not a car! Presenter ABC Newcastle. Loves vintage, Eurovision & great stories. You can also find the…

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a woman leaning toward a man their heads are becoming trees with birds flying towards each other.

This Christmas I’d like to propose a radical problem solving approach. That means, choosing to behave in a way that is uncomfortable, because it expands your capacity as a lover. As someone who loves. It is so fucking easy to say that we love, because we only hold ourselves to a standard where we express…

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I used to believe that I was a really great communicator. I mean, I’ve always been an avid reader and writer, and consider myself to be articulate. To be honest, it pissed me off no end that the people around me were such lazy listeners. Sometimes it felt like I was speaking a completely different…

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There’s this thing I see couples do all the time and it MAKES ME CRAZY! They spend so much time fact checking each other, and defending their own precious egos that they make BEING RIGHT the most important thing, and BEING KIND is an afterthought. For real, they say “I’d do anything to save this…

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I am so stoked that you loved the Ideal Relationship Model – I reckon it’s a cracker because it makes the (seeming) complexities of a relationship, simple. I really want to dive right into the strategies & systems that support the identities of Best Friends, Lovers, and Creators, BUT… before I do there is something…

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