Coloured blocks on a wooden background that spell Love and You (where they share the letter "o")

My friend Tash the dog trainer has clients who have 1 session with her and don’t understand why their dog is still doing the thing. They haven’t done the daily training and expect the resolution of the issue to happen in the room with her. Meanwhile THEY still behave in the same way. They reinforce all the…

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You know I’m always ranting about what people won’t do for love… Well I thought it was about time I shared with you what TO do. You know, the little things. See I believe that love is a verb, that means that the word is meaningless without the BEHAVIOUR to support it. And it is…

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Yes and No Signs for creating boundaries

How to define your boundaries is one of the trickiest things to navigate in a relationship; Even when we are clear about what our personal boundaries are, it can still be a challenge to articulate and maintain them with others. Qualitative researcher, Dr Brené Brown, says that according to her research, the primary reasons people…

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Superhero who would do anything for love

Okay, time for me to get a bit ranty again, there’s something that couples do that makes me MAD (you know, along with the other billion things I rant about!) They say “I love them so much, I’d do anything for them.” And then the truth of the matter is that’s a load of hot…

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