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Posts Tagged ‘Adulting’

Strong Boundaries Mean a Clean Yes or a Fast No

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I’ve had a lot of tough lessons in the last 5 years. They have come because I am working hard. I am opening myself to reflection and hard truths about the way that I am in the world, and the impact that has on relationships. One of the most profound lessons has been the importance…

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How to Manage Domestic Logistics

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“Hey babe, how was your day” “Pretty great, I had a great meeting this morning… oh! and the power bill came in… the dog is due for his shots… there’s washing still on the line… and we need more milk” “Oh yeah, do me now, I love it when you talk domestic logistics with me…”…

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Why Being a Martyr is Selfish

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I get it. I totally do. And as a reformed martyr I will be preaching the loudest. Playing the martyr is the ultimate selfishness, and it is exhausting for those who love you. Your inability to create and maintain your own boundaries leaves everyone around you feeling drained. Your refusal to prioritise your own wellness…

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