WHAT IS RELATIONSHIP COACHING?
Transformational coaching focuses on the underlying (and often unconscious) patterns of individual thinking that lead to your capacity to achieve and create the results you desire. Using powerful techniques from Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Instant Insight Communication Systems™, The Client Code™, DISC Behavioural Profiling, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and inspired by the work of Alice Haemmerle, Michaela Boehm, Steve James, and Esther Perel, we will change the level of thinking that created the problem, such that you will no longer have that same experience again.
My programs combine education & strategy to help client(s) to create their desired relationship. Coaching will enable clients to become clear about their ideal outcome both individually and as a couple. While past history is addressed, the focus is on moving into the future with the skills & resources you need to stop repeating old patterns and create a relationship that both nurtures and supports growth.
HOW IS RELATIONSHIP COACHING DIFFERENT TO MARRIAGE COUNSELLING?
Relationship coaching shares many of the same tools & techniques that are used in traditional counselling or marriage therapy.
The key difference is the training of each practitioner, the school of therapy that informs their approach, and the requirements of professional bodies for registration and supervision. In Australia, coaching does not have a regulating body, nor requirements for registration or supervision.
Having said that, my commitment to professionalism and high standards means that I continually participate in ongoing education, and seek out supervision and mentoring from professionals in this space.
WHAT KINDS OF PROBLEMS DO YOU SOLVE?
Lack of Communication • Lack of Intimacy • Want Passionate Sex-life • Feeling Stuck • Unmet Emotional Needs • Unmet Physical Needs • Unmet Mental Needs • Unmet Spiritual Needs • Groundhog Day • Loss of Libido • Mismatched Libido • Feeling Unloved • Feeling Unappreciated • Lack of Communication • Lack of Intimacy • Want Passionate Sex-life • How to Reset After a Fight • Infidelity • Problems with Exes • Problems with In-laws • Parenting Challenges • Can't Win • Walking on Eggshells • Separation • Nagging • Misunderstandings Blended Family Issues • Lack of Responsibility • Unbalanced Domestic Duties • Strategies for Conflict Resolution • Prolonged Stress ( illness, IVF, mental health, work related, financial) • Financial Disagreements • Recovering from Trauma (Death, Miscarriage, Abortion, Redundancy, Loss of Job) • Strategies for the Future • Creating Legacy • Challenges with Working Together • Owning a Business • Feel Taken for Granted • Division of Property / Parental Care • Newly Weds • Keep Dating the Wrong People • Looking for Love
HOW LONG IS A PROGRAM?
Each program is designed to be delivered over three months, or taken over a shorter period for rapid transformation.
Many of my clients find this pacing to be helpful as it provides a framework for you to implement change, while still having ongoing coaching & support.
DO YOU DO TELEPHONE & SKYPE CONSULTS?
Telephone & Skype consults are a life saver for couples & individual clients. No need to travel, find baby sitters, and juggle busy calendars.
For my interstate clients, please be sure to select the right timezone when you book your sessions!
SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
30 DAY RELATIONSHIP RESET
JOIN THE SLOW LOVE MOVEMENT
ARE YOU LOCATED IN THE NEWCASTLE, LAKE MACQUARIE, AND HUNTER VALLEY?
I see clients face-to-face from my office in Toronto in the beautiful Lake Macquarie region.
Parking is easy, and we have a beautiful and private space that overlooks bush land to hold our sessions.
WHO DO YOU WORK WITH?
For individuals who currently in a relationship & for those looking for love.
LGBTQ & POLY
For those who may find that traditional approaches don't support their identities and/or lifestyle.
For couples who are ready to take their relationship to the next level.
Tara was able to provide us with some really usefully and tangible tools and info to work with. The outcomes for us were that we were able to really highlight the things that are important to us and put into perspective the trivial things.
Another point that was extremely useful was the different ways that we receive information and the way that we feel appreciated and loved which can be very different for each of us. I would recommend her services for couples at various times in there relationship especially for those that may have lost their way.
Steve Haran & Chris Mostyn*