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Are you Willing to Roll the Dice on Your Relationship?

What happens in relationships, most of the time, is that over time people grow apart. That’s because they cruise along, dealing with things as they arise, and they never lift their eyes from the path to get curious about what else is possible. When a couple fails to dream together, they close ALL OF THE…

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Learning the Building Blocks for Love

Coloured blocks on a wooden background that spell Love and You (where they share the letter "o")

My friend Tash the dog trainer has clients who have 1 session with her and don’t understand why their dog is still doing the thing. They haven’t done the daily training and expect the resolution of the issue to happen in the room with her. Meanwhile THEY still behave in the same way. They reinforce all the…

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What is Emotional Labour? [ABC Radio Newcastle]

Woman Vacuuming and tipping over couch where man is sitting and reading newspaper.

Emotional labour Ever heard of emotional labour? You're probably doing it without even knowing what it is. And if you don't share the load, it could lead to a bit of relationship stress at The Sugar Doctor explains. Posted by Kia Handley on Sunday, 3 March 2019 You can listen to the show live on…

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Should I Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Close up of red rose on a black background.

I was going to write a thing, then I read what I wrote last year and still wholeheartedly feel that way, so here it is again… I frequently work with couples who tell me that they don’t need a particular day to celebrate their love, that they can do it any day. They also tell…

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Should I Block or Fuck Sexual Energy?

Lightning between two large white batteries

There are very few things that are as exciting as the spark of chemistry between two people. That sexual energy; the sparkle in your  eye, the rush of heat, the feeling of being drawn towards another, and seeing that they are drawn to you. What I often see people do is buy into the paradox…

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