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What I Reckon

Should I Block or Fuck Sexual Energy?

Lightning between two large white batteries

There are very few things that are as exciting as the spark of chemistry between two people. That sexual energy; the sparkle in your  eye, the rush of heat, the feeling of being drawn towards another, and seeing that they are drawn to you. What I often see people do is buy into the paradox…

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I Would Do Anything for Love (But I Won’t Do That)

Man ripping open shirt to reveal superman costume.

Okay, time for me to get a bit ranty again, there’s something that couples do that makes me MAD (you know, along with the other billion things I rant about!) They say “I love them so much, I’d do anything for them” And then the truth of the matter is that’s a load of hot…

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Relationship Challenges at Christmas

Women with wine wearing Christmas jumpers near a Christmas tree

The majority of couples are faced with relationship challenges at Christmas (despite what you might see on Insta). This time of year can be so much fun! But it isn’t all reindeers and egg nog… I can still remember the worst Christmas of my life, my ex-partner had gone on a bender and come home…

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Recommended Resources

Book on bare legs with tea and pine tree

People are always asking me “what can I read?” The long answer is: there are many valuable resources for relationships. The helpfulness depends on your personal experience and your desire, capacity, and efficacy of implementation. You may, in fact, be solving the wrong problem. That is, you have self diagnosed something in your relationship, and…

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Choosing Courage over Comfort

man walks past graffiti of the word courage

This week has been full of magic for me, but I’ll tell you more about that in a minute… You know that whole to be the change thing? Yeah, well it’s not that easy. It is the easiest thing to say, and one of the hardest things I have ever decided to BE. I’ve had…

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