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Learning the Building Blocks for Love

Coloured blocks on a wooden background that spell Love and You (where they share the letter "o")

My friend Tash the dog trainer has clients who have 1 session with her and don’t understand why their dog is still doing the thing. They haven’t done the daily training and expect the resolution of the issue to happen in the room with her. Meanwhile THEY still behave in the same way. They reinforce all the…

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Should I Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Close up of red rose on a black background.

I was going to write a thing, then I read what I wrote last year and still wholeheartedly feel that way, so here it is again… I frequently work with couples who tell me that they don’t need a particular day to celebrate their love, that they can do it any day. They also tell…

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Should I Block or Fuck Sexual Energy?

Lightning between two large white batteries

There are very few things that are as exciting as the spark of chemistry between two people. That sexual energy; the sparkle in your  eye, the rush of heat, the feeling of being drawn towards another, and seeing that they are drawn to you. What I often see people do is buy into the paradox…

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I Would Do Anything for Love (But I Won’t Do That)

Man ripping open shirt to reveal superman costume.

Okay, time for me to get a bit ranty again, there’s something that couples do that makes me MAD (you know, along with the other billion things I rant about!) They say “I love them so much, I’d do anything for them” And then the truth of the matter is that’s a load of hot…

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Relationship Challenges at Christmas

Women with wine wearing Christmas jumpers near a Christmas tree

The majority of couples are faced with relationship challenges at Christmas (despite what you might see on Insta). This time of year can be so much fun! But it isn’t all reindeers and egg nog… I can still remember the worst Christmas of my life, my ex-partner had gone on a bender and come home…

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