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Trouble Shooting

What is a Negative Anchor? (And how did kissing become yuck?)

Woman in singlet drying armpit with hairdryer

I threw out Jimmy T’s deodorant in the early days of our cohabitation. I waited til he went to work and quietly, stealthily, snuck out to the bin and hid it under some stinky rubbish. See, I have been telling him for a while that I didn’t like it. That it smelt yuk. He would…

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Learning the Building Blocks for Love

Coloured blocks on a wooden background that spell Love and You (where they share the letter "o")

My friend Tash the dog trainer has clients who have 1 session with her and don’t understand why their dog is still doing the thing. They haven’t done the daily training and expect the resolution of the issue to happen in the room with her. Meanwhile THEY still behave in the same way. They reinforce all the…

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Should I Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Close up of red rose on a black background.

I was going to write a thing, then I read what I wrote last year and still wholeheartedly feel that way, so here it is again… I frequently work with couples who tell me that they don’t need a particular day to celebrate their love, that they can do it any day. They also tell…

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I am 100% Responsible for the Results of My Communication.

I used to believe that I was a really great communicator. I mean, I’ve always been an avid reader and writer, and consider myself to be articulate. To be honest, it pissed me off no end that the people around me were such lazy listeners. Sometimes it felt like I was speaking a completely different…

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