Sex & Intimacy

How to Manage Mismatched Libidos

Kia Handley and The Sugar Doctor unpack how to manage mismatched libidos. [Original recording on ABC website here] You can listen to the show live on Monday mornings from 9:30 am on ABC Newcastle at 1233AM or stream live here. Kia Handley is: Not a car! Presenter ABC Newcastle. Loves vintage, Eurovision & great stories. You can…
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Creating and collapsing anchors

What is a Negative Anchor? (And how did kissing become yuck?)

It was early in our relationship when I had my first experience with collapsing anchors (I’ll explain that more as we go). I threw out Jimmy T’s deodorant. I waited till he went to work and then quietly, stealthily, snuck out to the bin and hid it under some stinky rubbish. See, I have been…
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three people holding hands

What is Polyamory?

We don't shy away from the big topics when The Sugar Doctor drops by for a chat. Today we looked at Polyamory relationships and what they look like and the stigmas around them in 2019. Posted by Kia Handley on Sunday, 28 April 2019 You can listen to the show live on Monday mornings from…
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Man & woman listening to music together

Can Men and Women be Just Friends?

Can men and women be friends Can men and women be friends? JUST friends and nothing else? It's a big question and The Sugar Doctor answered it! Posted by Kia Handley on Sunday, 3 March 2019   You can listen to the show live on Monday mornings from 9:30 am on ABC Newcastle at 1233AM…
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a rose to celebrate Valentine's Day

Should I Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

I was going to write a thing, then I read what I wrote last year and still wholeheartedly feel that way, so here it is again… I frequently work with couples who tell me that they don’t need a particular day to celebrate their love, that they can do it any day. They also tell…
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