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When Can I Stop Calling Myself Divorced

Audio Episode Transcript: It was a conversation that came up partly after the census; You had a few options in your relationship status, you could select never married… or divorced. It’s led to conversations about when can we stop calling myself divorced, especially if you never remarry. A number of you shared your thoughts on…
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Will Keeping a Secret End Your Relationship?

  Audio Episode Transcript: In your mind, what is a secret? If you share something with some people and not others? Is it something that absolutely no one knows except you? Are secrets always bad? Or can they sometimes be something that is a need to know basis? How does keeping a secret impact relationships?…
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Why You Must Stop Pathologising Your Partner!

Audio [Original recording on ABC website here] Episode Transcript: So you think you’re an amateur psychologist? More than ever before we talk openly about mental health, about anxiety, depression, bipolar feelings of flying high and being pretty low, you might be more open talking about triggers and traumas and everything in between. So does that mean…
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Do Unresolvable Issues Mean Game Over?

How do you know the difference between solvable and unresolvable issues in your relationship? And does it mean that you’re incompatible and should break up? Kia Handley and The Sugar Doctor talk about how to navigate conflict when you just can’t agree. [Full Transcript Below] Audio You can listen to the show live on Monday…
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How to Choose to Let it Go: Radical Problem Solving

This Christmas I’d like to propose a radical problem solving approach. That means, choosing to behave in a way that is uncomfortable, because it expands your capacity as a lover. As someone who loves. It is so fucking easy to say that we love, because we only hold ourselves to a standard where we express…
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I Would Do Anything for Love (But I Won’t Do That)

Okay, time for me to get a bit ranty again, there’s something that couples do that makes me MAD (you know, along with the other billion things I rant about!) They say “I love them so much, I’d do anything for them.” And then the truth of the matter is that’s a load of hot…
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