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Friendship

Choosing Courage over Comfort

man walks past graffiti of the word courage

This week has been full of magic for me, but I’ll tell you more about that in a minute… You know that whole to be the change thing? Yeah, well it’s not that easy. It is the easiest thing to say, and one of the hardest things I have ever decided to BE. I’ve had…

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Are you a GIVER or a GETTER of significance?

I used to be masterful at the cutting remark, the quick quip to get a laugh. I used to be proud of it. It was part of my defense system throughout my working life in kitchens, bars, and then in the construction industry. I thought I had to be tough to survive. It is a…

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The Invisible Rules of Friendship

The best of my friendships are found in that sweet spot between shared interests & values, great communication, and aligned “rules” of engagement. That is, once we meet the criteria of being friends, the depth is dictated by the degree of match between our secret invisible criteria for successful relationships. It is definitely possible to…

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The Top 3 Reasons Friendships Implode

The day we had the fight, I was gutted. I spent the afternoon feeling shocked, that numbness that envelops you like cotton wool, keeping in the frustration and anger and short circuiting any possibility for rational thinking. It was my fault. At any rate, the final straw was placed by me. I didn’t answer a…

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