Communication
How to Manage Domestic Logistics
“Hey babe, how was your day” “Pretty great, I had a great meeting this morning… oh! and the power bill came in… the dog is due for his shots… there’s washing still on the line… and we need more milk” “Oh yeah, do me now, I love it when you talk domestic logistics with me…”…
Read MoreWhy We Do What We Do
I never really understood the reason I made the choices in my life that I had made. While my friends finished their degrees and found jobs, I started 4 different degrees and changed my job at least every 12 months. Every time I thought I had found “the thing”, I quickly discovered that it was…
Read MoreAre you a GIVER or a GETTER of significance?
I used to be masterful at the cutting remark, the quick quip to get a laugh. I used to be proud of it. It was part of my defense system throughout my working life in kitchens, bars, and then in the construction industry. I thought I had to be tough to survive. It is a…
Read MoreThe Art of Feedback
I am writing to you today because I have seen into your soul and it is filled with a universe of starlight & possibility. I am giving you this feedback, because I know you, deep in my bones, and I know that you are capable of so much more. You have been lied to, led…
Read MoreWhy BEING RIGHT can be so wrong.
There’s this thing I see couples do all the time and it MAKES ME CRAZY! They spend so much time fact checking each other, and defending their own precious egos that they make BEING RIGHT the most important thing, and BEING KIND is an afterthought. For real, they say “I’d do anything to save this…
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