Communication
Strong Boundaries Mean a Clean Yes or a Fast No
I’ve had a lot of tough lessons in the last 5 years. They have come because I am working hard. I am opening myself to reflection and hard truths about the way that I am in the world, and the impact that has on relationships. One of the most profound lessons has been the importance…
Read MoreNever Ever Speak of This Again.
This Christmas I’d like to propose you take action in #RadicalLove. That means, choosing to behave in a way that is uncomfortable, because it expands your capacity as a lover. As someone who loves. It is so fucking easy to say that we love, because we only hold ourselves to a standard where we express…
Read MoreHow to Manage Domestic Logistics
“Hey babe, how was your day” “Pretty great, I had a great meeting this morning… oh! and the power bill came in… the dog is due for his shots… there’s washing still on the line… and we need more milk” “Oh yeah, do me now, I love it when you talk domestic logistics with me…”…
Read MoreWhy We Do What We Do
I never really understood the reason I made the choices in my life that I had made. While my friends finished their degrees and found jobs, I started 4 different degrees and changed my job at least every 12 months. Every time I thought I had found “the thing”, I quickly discovered that it was…
Read MoreAre you a GIVER or a GETTER of significance?
I used to be masterful at the cutting remark, the quick quip to get a laugh. I used to be proud of it. It was part of my defense system throughout my working life in kitchens, bars, and then in the construction industry. I thought I had to be tough to survive. It is a…
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