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Should I Block or Fuck Sexual Energy?

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There are very few things that are as exciting as the spark of chemistry between two people. That sexual energy; the sparkle in your  eye, the rush of heat, the feeling of being drawn towards another, and seeing that they are drawn to you. What I often see people do is buy into the paradox…

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Date Night Ideas – A Nude Ocean Swim

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When I think of summer, I think of long lazy days spent at the beach. Clear blue sky, ocean forever, and the scent of coconut oil. I love the feeling of the hot sun on my bare skin and the cool wash of the water supporting my body. There is something super sexy about the…

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The Little Things [Let it Go]

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You know I’m always ranting about what people won’t do for love… Well I thought it was about time I shared with you what TO do. You know, the little things. See I believe that love is a verb, that means that the word is meaningless without the BEHAVIOUR to support it. And it is…

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Strong Boundaries Mean a Clean Yes or a Fast No

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I’ve had a lot of tough lessons in the last 5 years. They have come because I am working hard. I am opening myself to reflection and hard truths about the way that I am in the world, and the impact that has on relationships. One of the most profound lessons has been the importance…

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Never Ever Speak of This Again.

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This Christmas I’d like to propose you take action in #RadicalLove. That means, choosing to behave in a way that is uncomfortable, because it expands your capacity as a lover. As someone who loves. It is so fucking easy to say that we love, because we only hold ourselves to a standard where we express…

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